Before we get into the intensity of life and being overwhelming over cries, tears and joyousness we have overcome. Congratulations! you made it to face the challenges and stay on the path of what we called “live your life”. Clearly you begin to think whether really you have overcome your challenges? neither you have successfully beat the par? then, you feel is the excitement still exist? were you feeling tired? can you keep your beautiful smile on your face still every end of the days? will you manage your temperament over petty things happened? or the big question is were you happy? – are you making subsequent changes to have better achievement in your life?
Daily we questions ourselves what can I do to make my life better, didn’t you? trust me everyone else does the same thing, every day we circulate same answers to please people and ourselves just to ensure we are feeling okay and on board with the rest just to avoid stereotypical from people. Sigh, it is heart crunching and exhausting. But, is pleasing people is what we obliged too? or were it a sin for us to be self-minded and self-focus over of what we actually want, desire and planning for. Too many of other people matters and views towards us, does it bring any happiness? or were it distance yourself from what you are aiming for?
Some of us just graduated from school, some of us gets in industry, and among us were married and some having a big family by the time I end my writing today. Each of us responsibilities were varies deeply and neither can I simplify the situation to make everyone of us equal because EQUALITY IS RHETORIC – it is used to bait people like us into their political consent (anyway that’s different case). Do more of what you love to commit and do, give it all you got at the very best point of view. Whether it derive to start a small-business or embark in sports such as football or such let no one erase your desire from your mind – because at the end of the day it is only you to fix who you want to be. Forget it if you do not love of what you are doing right now which then lead to failure in giving your best, so get out of it! Run! and Never Turn Back!. Life is too short to put everything on debate full table – sometimes all you need is a courage and powerful kick start. Believe me you will be too old even before you know it. Hey, are you in the mid 20’s or 40’s? why haven’t you starting anything yet?
To all women regardless where you live, your family background and your intelligence level – it DO NOT MATTER when comes to willingness of making changes. You have all the ideas and plans so drive it along your ways to make it happen. DREAM and DO IT. Says you love cooking you can also start small in packs and sell your products to the nearest vendor. If your into services, you can start within your own capacity with smallest investment and closest clients. Rest of other businesses were tag along with similar strategies stated. Is marriage life limits you? oh dear, when he put “that” ring to your finger he suffice in supporting you anyhow and in every way says you urge to start your business or you want to be a politician. Husband talks less sometimes they can talk much either! neither your talking benefit both yourself and him.
Can you be Happier if you start doing it? is it something that you really wanted? were it your full devotion and commitment? if YES, I believe you have found your source of Happiness. I wish all the very best in accommodating better life, desire to have better and independent. Be afraid no more begin fulfilling your days with courage, fight your failures again and again till you are satisfied. For once again – women were formed with richness in creativity and thoughts, do happily embrace those and embedded your life with it hence, trust me – Most powerful weapon lays within you.
Your happiness starts within you. Just do it even when people call you crazy!